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Wednesday, May 21, 2008

A Moment like this...

A Moment Like This ....some people wait a life time.
Wow.. What a day this was.
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I know many of you have been waiting for that 1st family photo...
Proof that this is truly happening. lol
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Like many adoptive first family photos and moments ...ours was no different.
Every parent would like to think that their child will some how recognise them as their parent and come running... arms stretched open and they would get that perfect family instantly.
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Truth be told I would have been a little concerned if that would have happen.
It would be a sign of a child that would have attachment issues.
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Tamara is 3 and although she was told we were coming I don't think she fully understood the scope of it all.
She is very attached to her Foster Family. And after spending the afternoon with them and it is obvious they are bonded to her as well.
Upon our arrival we found Tamara home with the Foster Grandmother and the two other foster children living in the home.
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The first picture is what happen when I scooped her up in my arms. Tamara is extremely shy around strangers. You can see the raw emotion of the moment.



A moment later she starts to settle a bit but is still extremely shy.

As I held her .. it took what felt like forever to get her to look at me.

The stuffed toy she's holding is the one we had sent to her with our pictures over a months ago.

She likes the toy and as the afternoon went on she actually brought me the photo album we sent her of us, our house, pets and family. Her way of saying... I know who you are.

I bought all the children a glow worm or seahorse.

Here she opens hers. Another good choice... she likes it as do the other children.

Tamara is very shy around men. Children in orphanages and foster homes don't see many unless they're Drs. so it will take a little while for her to warm up to Daddy.

On the other hand she already has him wrapped around her pinkie... super cute.

She has been checking him out though and he almost got her to eat a spoonful of his ice cream. It's just a matter of time until she takes his whole bowl. lol

About Tamara

Our little girl is extremely shy until she gets to know you. By the end of our visit she would put her arms up for me to pick her up and is a cuddle bug. Best Hug I ever had!!!

Tomorrow we have court... the next BIG Day!

Then we have to go to a notary, embassy and then visit our baby again.

It was a little bit of a heart breaker to leave her today. We have decided to leave her in the foster home for another few days. It will be less traumatic for her if she gets to know us a little better first. Besides we have a lot of official running around to do tomorrow. It just didn't make sense to take her away from her foster family and leave her in our apartment with the nanny.

So if all goes well we'll take possession the day after tomorrow. By then all the legal running around should be pretty much under control and we can devote all our time to her.

Tamara is a very sweet, smart, tiny little thing. She's a good eater and is very co-ordinated. She has rhythm... yup I think we have a dancer. She also likes to be clean and tidy.

A definite girly girl... can't wait to give her a bubble bath and dress her up.

So so cute. You're all going to love her as much as we do.

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On the country front.. today was Election day in Georgia and the losing party has already called for protests.. which is one of the few concerns we had before travel. So we'll have to keep an eye out and watch the local news.

We will also be here for their Independence Day which I believe is next week?

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The city by day could use a fresh coat of paint. But still very interesting and has an old world charm to it like many cities in Europe. There seems to be a monument and or fountain on every street corner. Well maybe not every but the way they drive here it seems like it. lol

We will try and get video of our driving adventure as well for you... somethings are just hard to describe on paper. This is one of them.

The people in Georgia are awesome!!! I haven't felt this warm and fuzzy about the natives since I left Aruba in the 80's. They the Georgians genuinely seem to like people. And they all seem to appreciate what they have and are proud of who they are. It's refreshing.

All in All a wonderful Day in Tbilisi. One we will cherish in our hearts forever.

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8 comments:

Anonymous said...

Thank you for sharing your special "first moments" with your baby daughter. Our hearts are full of joy for you all!

Will continue to follow your journey and look forward to each posting. The Tbilisi "clock" is very helpful!

Love,

Debbie and family

Olga said...

What a Family!!! Oh my God she is everything I thought she would be and more.How precious!! Keep us posted and have a great time. Bruce just breath. LOL You look more scared than Tamara. LOL Enjoy - Enjoy. Lee a Natural!!

Anonymous said...

Just tooo cute!! Congrats, made me cry.
Jay

Unknown said...

How WONDERFUL - we can't wait to see all three of you across the street! She looks beautiful and precious and perfect! We're SO HAPPY for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Olga said...

I'm not sure if you get emails so and I wanted to share something with you guys. You don't have to post this. Yesterday I was at a bbq at Katies school. We were on the blanket with 6 other little girls laughing when Katie announced that Her Aunt Lee is in Tali - Tali then after a pause she said Georgia. (very funny to see)getting her a cousin named Tamara as gift. I explained had to her in front of her friends (who were very excited with the gift) that You and Uncle Bruce were picking up Tamara and she is a gift but not like a birthday gift. It went on with questions from the girls and was so cute. I think she now understands that Tamara is your daughter not her sister. Which brings me to what Nick said in the car again out of the blue. He got very excited and said know what? What Nick - I'm not the middle child anymore. What do you mean Nick?(I asked)Brandon is 18 so he don't count. so - Now Katie is the middle child. Yes he said - Me (Nick) Tamara Katie. Katie is not now the monkey in the middle. Again I found myslef explaining that Tamara is Uncle Bruce and Aunt Lees Daughter. She is not counted in that chain. He is still the middle child and always will be. He didn't like it. Which took Katie in a whole other direction with Monkey in the Middle. LOL. All in all it was a very funny day. We are all so excited for all three of you. Loved the pictures its what I wanted most.(besides you guys home)Thank you for sharing this monumental moment with us. What a wonderful family!!!
LOL (Lots of Love)

Anonymous said...

My heart is just bursting! Got me all teared up!
What an unbelievable moment - what an unbelievable journey!
You all deserve a lifetime of happiness - together - your new family.
Thank you for making my day!
And here I thought finding out David Cook won Idol was going to be the most interesting thing I'd read today!LOL!

Love,
Sondra

Olga said...

Ok, I did not have my sound on at home. I got to work and opened your blog and music started playing. You owe me a box of tissues!

Anonymous said...

*you don't have to share this - I don't know if your email works*

I have log out for the rest of the day. Just wanted you to know that I'm praying your day went well. You guys have been on my mind.
Tamara looks even more beautiful in you arms - so do you - motherhood does that to you - it's a glow, I'm told.
Look forward to your next post.
Love and Best wishes,
Sondra

PS - hey Bruce, Happy Fathers Day - a little early.