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Wednesday, June 4, 2008

See Dots Run


See Dots Run... Run Dots Run...


Our day started with a wake up call at 7:30 am. Yup... Tamara was up 15 minutes earlier then yesterday. We went through our early morning rituals and had her seated for breakfast in under 15 minutes. She takes breakfast very seriously so there is no rest for the weary.

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As we wined down our trip I thought I would share our view from the balcony. This is across the court yard / alley... court yard sounds better. Although our building is fairly modern Tbilisi is dotted with the old mixing in with the new. Some of the banging these last two weeks was putting a new tin roof on this building. It's interesting to see how they repair / patch the older residences. Most apartments are owned by the occupants. Given to them during the Soviet era. There don't seem to be any restrictions as to how they are maintained like in the USA. Everyone seems to do their own thing? Still trying to figure out why the attic of this one structure is open with a partial railing. Weird.

It's kind of interesting to watch the people go about their everyday lives. You can see an awful lot back here. The women hang their laundry almost every day. A load at a time. Everyone has these really cool clothes lines off of there balconies. So cool in fact I wanted to bring one home for our deck. When we visited Nina's apartment we had the chance to see some of her neighbors clothes lines up close. Bruce says he can make one for me. I love the way sheets smell with you air dry them. Reminds me of my childhood. ;o)

Anyway... the people. There's a 20 something year old girl that gets dropped off at 2 am? Hum... wonder what she's up to?

Two little 9-10 year old girls that play every day after school.

A car that pulls up every day around 11 am ish. 2 women and a man get out. The women open the trunk and the man walks around yelling at the roof tops. For days I thought he was calling his friends... then I realized they were food vendors. Calling all the workers... telling them their lunch has arrived.

There are teenage boys that sneak into the court yard to smoke.

A man with his new car... he washes it every 2-3 days.

A baby that must be teething as it cries constantly.

Little children we hear giggling at 11 pm? They should be sleeping :o(

An old man hangs his laundry around 1 am. Must be a widower?

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OK... so I started a neighbor hood watch in Tbilisi...lol. I can hear my neighbors now... she doesn't miss much. At home there isn't much that gets past me in the neighborhood. So to all my neighbors out there... What am I missing? Did Barbra move? How are our new neighbors?

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Oh.. before I forget... Happy belated Birthday Morgan, Congratulations Timmy C.,

Congratulations Martina.. sorry I missed your shower. As you know we were leaving the following day. I heard it was wonderful. We'll have to play catch up as soon as we get settled.

Happy Birthday Katie and Amanda ( I left your gifts for Grandma & Dido to give you ;o) )

Congratulations Mindy, Peter & Issac. Can't wait to meet Olivia Lee.

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OK... back to Tbilisi

It amazes me how these people walk around this network of alleys and court yards at night. I guess you get used to it after a while. Although there are window guards on many lower floor windows and balconies I haven't seen any activity in Georgia that I would consider hostile or intimidating. We're very comfortable walking around here... although we really haven't had much of an opportunity to get in too much trouble. Our agency staff keeps pretty close tabs on us. Making sure we always have a ride and translator with us. Better safe then sorry I suppose. But I was thinking about it today. Tbilisi is much safer then say NYC. You don't see police cars chasing people around. There is a pretty obvious police / security presence but we haven't seen any action as we would have at home. Today for the first time we saw an ambulance wiz by. Have yet to see a fire truck... although I'm sure they have them.

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Here's part of our view. You can see the contrast of old against the newer apartments buildings. From what I can tell everyone has a balcony in Tbilisi. Kind of cool. I would like to see more flowers on these balconies.. but I guess they have different priorities?


We soon left the house to do some running around. Had to run to the notary and the bank.

Then it was back to the apartment to pick up Tamara. Both the passport office and US embassy wanted to see her. So after a quick wardrobe change and lunch we were off again.


Below is a fast food stand in Tbilisi


The passport office.


Tamara... checking out her new Georgian Passport.


Today was a very busy day.

Dots running here... Dots running there... Dots were running everywhere.

( You can see one of the girls next to us in the back seat.. sorting through stacks of documents)

USA... Georgia... USA

Passports are ready


Once Tamara's little feet hit US soil she becomes an instant American Citizen


This will happen at JFK


After passports we went to the embassy. They were very nice but sprung a surprise on us. Apparently they need last years Tax return and our gross income for the past 3 years. Grrr... we didn't know that. Must be something new? But after brain storming for about an hour we figured out how to electronically access the files we needed. They are now printed and ready for our return appointment at 2:30 tomorrow. For a brief moment our hearts sank. We were told without these documents we might get sent back by immigration upon arrival in the USA. Can you imagine? Anyway... unless they needed some special signature from someone in Tbilisi I told Bruce he could have taken the limo home with the luggage and I could have stayed at JFK with Tamara... he then could get all the documentation they need and come and get us. That was plan A ... Since we were able to access the files we needed it should no longer be an issue. Hopefully no other surprises tomorrow.


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Just for the record... our government is very detail oriented. For those who are in the process... dot your "i's"... cross your "t's". Don't take short cuts. Take extra copies with you... you never know. Take a copy of last years income tax return. Doesn't make sense to me as that was all approved during the home study process but you probably will need it. Our facilitator and staff were very efficient getting all the documents together for the embassy. The embassy staff even asked who we were using. When we told them they said "Oh Good... this should be easy then. They always have it all together." Nice to hear. ;o)


At the US Embassy they do have a small play area with some toys for your child. There is a coffee machine but nothing for your child to drink while there. They do not allow any liquids, gels or powders past the security check point. Make sure your babies are well hydrated and fed before you go. You may be there an hour or longer. There are drinking water fountains in the embassy court yard but I'm assuming it's city water? Although all the locals say it's safe to drink... we've been drinking & brushing our teeth using only bottled water. And yes their potty is a western style. ;o)


Tamara at the apartment... a brief moment of non activity. She totally missed her nap today with all the running around. Over tired ... and over stimulated. She was non stop today. Mommy missed her nap too today...lol. A relaxing bath and off to bed she went.

See Dots Run!!!


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6 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hi Tamara,
A few more days and you will be going to your new home. You are so lucky to have such a great set of parents. They will shower you with lots of love and I am sure too many presents. Your daddy is an old softy. At least he is now. You see he is my brother and wasn't always that way. I'll tell you stories when you get older. You have an Aunt Chris and Uncle Wes that live in a state called Wisconsin. You also have 4 cousins, Jennifer, Mindy, Angie, and Jonathan that also comes with 5 second cousins. We can't wait to see you and give you hugs and kisses and a chance to spoil you too. Have a safe trip. All our love!!!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

I love the dots - you two are too CUTE!! You crack me up!
Seems like things are moving along and you 3 should be coming home soon.
I was wondering...
How does one prepare a 3 year old for such a big journey? Not just the coming to live in a new country - but the actual trip home.
Is this something that you've been explaining to her? Can she even understand the concept of flying in an airplane?
I was thinking how hard it would be for Joey to grasp that - and we don't have a language issue.
I'm just curious - and maybe someone else going through the adoption process would be too.

Best of Luck.
Sondra

Anonymous said...

Lee,

The tax returns must be a new thing and by our embassy, too. I agree I am surprised, too.

We got hit at the Tbilisi airport (immigration?/customs?) with needing to show Dominic's birth mother's photo ID. We were only given a copy for rememberance. So you never know what they will ask for. I'm thinking maybe the one other agency, may not be as prepared as yours is/ours was.

I also liked the cloths line and also thought it wouldn't be too hard to make...but I don't have Bruce's great tools and know-how experience. So Bruce, if you do decide to make one...two please. I'm a good helper!

It is so neat to see the photos...of the veiw. We had the same view...same apartment for sure! Have you seen Mariza's place, yet? I urge you to go there for some/any reason...her mother lives with her...tell her you want to meet her mom. She is very friendly.

I wondered why the top floor was open as well. I thought maybe to hang cloths? But then you don't need a roof. As I recall, my Georgain friend didn't know either.

Sounds like you will be leaving soon. I know it is hard to leave, as the country is so homey, but it will be good to be home home!

You are a "real family" now...this is how the Georgains would translate this into English...I read this in one of our court documents.

You all look like you have been a family for years...and no one will know she is adopted unless you tell them. I tell everyone as we are proud, but it's nice to not have to tell everyone or that everyone already knows because it is so obvious.

Very often when we tell Dominic's story, which is much the same as Tamara's, pleople who don't know us will ask, "so how old was Clara when you got her?" And I say, "about 1 sec old!" It's funny!

All the best,
Filomena

Olga said...

Tamara, Best passport photo I've ever seen! Soon you will be picking flowers for mommy (from her garden of course. LOL) and petting your cats. Home is a wonderful place and we are waiting for you!! I'm really loving the poka dots on you and mommy. How about a girls day shopping trip when youre ready? Now, tell mommy you need more pics of the two of you and all three of you together.I think in front of the fountain would be nice.(hint hint mommy. LOL) We are all excited about your arrival we talk about you daily waiting anixously to see each day what mommy has written about you and to see the precious pictures she includes. Katharin and Nickolas ask me each morning to bring up this site just so they can see how you are doing and if you got on the plane yet. LOL. I don't know if your Grandma and Dido know how to do this blog thing but I want you to know that they see you everyday and I know they can't wait to see your smile in person. They are very special people and love you. As we all do.
Tamara, can you say plane??

Unknown said...

Hey guys - still checking in every day and it's great to see how happy you all are. Tamara looks happy, well-loved and, of course, well-dressed. Can't wait to see all of the mother/daughter outfits you two will be sporting this summer! Everything here is the same - told Bruce about the speed checking machine - maybe due to complaints about speeders? Hopefully everyone will slow down on the road... (perfect timing for Tamara's homecoming/summer season). What a difference between Tblisi and our Road - Tamara will have fun exploring the neighborhood. Today there's a lot of noise from the township trucks - they're patching up the road - Zach waved hi to all of the workers and they waved back - he got embarassed and shut the door! So happy about the paperwork progress you're making - sounds like you'll have a departure date in no time!

Anonymous said...

what happened to today's post ? are you guys ok? Did you leave?